down to the basics

i know I've tried a lot to be better than what i used to be, but i always fail in achieving that, because i am more comfortable with who i really am. Now, i'm at the breach of extinction.. or so it seems, if i will not make a move right now, the ones that i love might stay away from me, just because of my stupid attitude. oh well, might as well begin with the basics rather than not starting at all... my advice? Change in flow with time...